Monday, January 9, 2012

Ideas On How to Flirt With Girls

By Chris Miller


Dating skills and relationship skills are not precisely alike. This means that having had girlfriends in the past can help you date women when you're suddenly single. Meeting women and flirting with them may become a challenge. First of all, your girlfriend (or your ex) will most likely see through your efforts to impress her. But techniques that seemed tacky in the past may work like a charm now.

Then, now that you're in the dating scene, you must understand that there are some skills that are developed exclusively for the intention of flirting with girls. The playing field is level, and it does not matter whether you're a beginner in flirting or not. You can employ the same flirting skills on somebody you want to have a relationship with and somebody you just want to be friends with benefits with.

Here are the tips.

3 Tips on Flirting With Girls

1. Concentrate on Attraction

Attraction is more than just physical. Therefore, not looking like Brad Pitt should not stop you from being a superior flirt. In fact, you may have seen some ugly men successfully flirting with women and wondered why women fall for his words.

The phase of attraction is making a girl feel emotionally linked with you. Before you can progress to the flirting phase, the goal is to make her feel at ease using your conversation skills. Great conversation skills can make her feel attracted.

2. Make Her Laugh

A girl who feels like she's found somebody fun to talk to will not think about rejection. Gorgeous women are world-weary when it comes to getting flattery from men. They are used to being called beautiful or sexy. It takes a rare guy to turn these girls on using his wittiness.

By using humor as a seduction tool, you can accomplish many things. To begin with, her attention becomes yours a hundred percent. Second, you convey that you are used to being in such a conversation with pretty girls. If a woman feels that you are not those other guys who approached her because they want to feel her up, you score points. Some guys really do go into hysterics when a beautiful girl a lot as looks at them.

3. Flirting

Once you've got her attention, you can proceed with regular conversation. Pleasantries are ok, but you want to advance to the main part fast. Teasing should come out in a natural way, even if you had to learn everything from scratch with much difficulty. But the real secret to flirting is not the methods. You only need to lighten up and never take yourself too seriously. When you act tense around people, jokes will come out wrong. Flirting must be light and good-humored.




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